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The week keeps going after class

Every school will tell you about its classes. A boarding student's day also keeps going after the last bell: dinner, study time, an adult on duty in the dorm, a stomachache at eleven p.m., a Friday afternoon with a ride to arrange. The school day and the life after it are both part of the choice, so ask about both.

Start with the shape of the week. At Hackley, in Tarrytown, New York, five-day boarders return on Sunday evening, from 7 p.m., and the dorm closes at 7 p.m. on Friday, so weekends are a home matter. That is a five-day schedule, not a seven-day residential week. Hackley's boarding page says it accepts new boarding students in grades 9 through 11, with priority for 9 and 10.

Decide with your child whether you are applying as a boarder or a day student before you open an application. Gateway, an application system used by member schools, says the choice cannot be changed once you add the school. Phillips Academy Andover in Massachusetts says it cannot be changed after submission. The two lock at different points, so confirm each school's rule with its admission office and decide before you reach the earlier one.

Weekends take a plan, not a hope

On a five-day plan, the home end of the week is yours. Someone has to be there Friday evening and Sunday evening, and the Saturday tournament needs an answer. Hackley says students who expect frequent overnight absences for outside activities may find the program a poor fit, so a family with a heavy weekend calendar should ask about that early.

A seven-day school asks a different question: when can a child leave, and who approves it? The Hotchkiss School in Connecticut publishes an almanac that serves as its student handbook. According to its 2026–27 edition, a student may leave for the weekend after the last school obligation, with a parent's request.

Adults, rooms and phones

At eleven p.m., a homesick ninth grader or a roommate argument needs an adult who can help. Ask who is awake in the building, how many students each adult covers, how a child reaches them at night, and what happens after a roommate conflict is reported. A useful answer names people and steps.

Phone rules shape calls home. At Deerfield Academy in Massachusetts, the 2026–27 handbook keeps boarders' phones in the dorm, except for off-campus travel, independent exercise in the fitness center and running. Ninth and tenth graders hand them in at 10:30 p.m. That is one school's rule. Ask yours when calls are realistic, whom to contact if you cannot reach your child, and how it handles the first homesick Sunday.

Health care and learning support

Support has hours, and the hours have edges. The same Hotchkiss almanac describes a health center open around the clock when school is in session, counselor appointments during the academic day, and on-call coverage for urgent crises. Outpatient counseling is at no cost, while psychiatric services are arranged and paid for separately. When school is not in session, direct care pauses, though the team can coordinate a handover with home providers.

So ask each school who coordinates care with your child's home provider before a break. If your child has a diagnosis, a prescription or a hard year behind them, ask who will know about it, who does what, and who covers Thanksgiving week.

Academic help has confusing names. At Choate Rosemary Hall in Connecticut, the Teaching and Learning Center coaches students in skills such as reading, writing, study habits and time management, and offers quiet places to work. It is not testing and not private tutoring. Choate says it does not provide learning-disability or ADHD testing, though it can share a list of professionals and explain how accommodations are granted. Teacher help and some peer tutoring are separate again.

Choate also says families are not required to disclose a diagnosis but are encouraged to, so support can be offered. When you compare schools, ask who provides testing, who tutors and who coaches.

Where a worry can go

Nobody tours a school hoping to need this section, which is why it belongs in the plan. If a student has a concern about an adult, who can they call? Is there a contact outside that adult's chain of supervisors, so the report does not go to the people it concerns?

Deerfield describes an independently staffed, round-the-clock hotline. Its 2026–27 handbook limits that channel to suspected violations of law or regulation. Names are shared on a need-to-know basis; anonymous reporting limits follow-up. Ask each school which channel fits your concern and what confidentiality it offers.

Look for a named role: a dean, a counselor on call, a dorm head. Ask which outside agencies a report may reach and how a family learns the school acted. The handbooks cited here are for 2026–27; ask which version will apply when your child arrives.

A calendar that survives January

Each school sets its own calendar, so copy dates from the school's own page. For the 2027 cycle, Hotchkiss lists January 15, 2027 for both the application and the aid application, decisions on March 10 and a reply date of April 10, while Andover lists February 1, 2027 for both its application and its aid application. Other schools will have other dates. Application, aid, interview booking and a finished file can fall on different days, so keep the dates that matter where you can see them.

Most paperwork lives in application systems, and a system can look finished before it is. Gateway and the Standard Application Online are shared application systems that many schools use. Each school's own published process says which one to use, so make that your first action: find the page and follow it.

A submitted profile and payment are not a complete application. The profile supplies basic student information; the school may also require essays, recommendations, test results and an interview. The Standard Application Online sends the profile and other completed pieces when you pay the school's fee. Check what has actually arrived, in the school's applicant portal or by asking the admission office, not just what you have requested.

Testing is school by school too. The SSAT and ISEE are admissions tests used by independent schools. Andover accepts the Upper Level SSAT or ISEE, the PSAT, the SAT or the ACT. Hotchkiss takes the SSAT or ISEE for grades 9 and 10, with different tests for senior grades. English-proficiency requirements differ too. Check which tests your child's grade requires before booking.

The essays are your child's own writing. Your role is logistics and conversation: which statement goes where, which login goes with which account, when the reminder email will land, and talking through options when your child wants to.

Pricing the actual year

Price the year your child will live, not the one on the website today. Andover lists 2026–27 boarding tuition at $79,800, which is a current figure, not a forecast for 2027–28, so ask when the next one is set. It also says it admits without regard to need and meets 100 percent of the need it determines, using grants rather than loans, so ask any school how it determines need.

Ask about aid before you apply, not after an offer arrives. Andover collects financial aid applications through Clarity, a separate financial-aid application service rather than part of the admission application, and asks families to flag their interest in Gateway's Candidate Profile. Andover requires any family that may want help now or later to apply in the first application year; other schools may set different rules.

Andover also asks for information from all living parents, with divorced or separated parents each filing separately. Single-parent and non-US households have specific instructions, so write to the aid office early rather than guessing.

Then the extras, where totals quietly grow: travel, insurance, extra academic help and housing during breaks. Ask which are included, which are optional and which come on a separate bill, and ask for the answers in writing.

The offer, the contract and your child

An offer brings more than a yes: there is enrollment paperwork to read. Read the agreement before sending money. Does the deposit reduce the tuition balance? When are payments due, and what happens if you withdraw? Use the terms for your child's year of entry; amounts and dates from an earlier year may not apply.

A waitlist is not a seat. Call the school, ask what the status means and what the timeline looks like, as the Association of Boarding Schools also suggests, and keep a plan for a seat you can actually accept.

Last, give your child a seat in these questions. Ask what they would want to know about an ordinary Wednesday at each school: who wakes them, where they eat, which adult they would go to after a bad day, what Saturday looks like. After visits and conversations with admission staff or current students, list what is still unanswered and send those questions to the school before an offer decision is due.

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